Law of Creations says that every feeling you focus on will multiply in your life
The more you focus on Love or feeling loved and face obstacles on the path, the more the feeling will multiply . Difficulties will continue till you attain the feeling of self love and love from God, before realizing love on Earth. Once you connect to the creator, you will keep seeking love till you redefine love in ways that help you attain peace , and do work for the peace of the world while meeting your responsibilities as a lover .
Over the life time, as you become lovers, you multiply your spirit and face responsibilities. Love is not restricted to religion or class and crosses dimensions where there is need to spread equality in hearts .The more you focus on a problem , you multiply it. The more you focus on converting the energy of the problem to positive by breathing through its particles or sanskars, the more you redefine your challenges to find peace and spread peacefulness.
Love helps you focus on other people's thinking with a need to merge and understand other people's view points . It is unadvisable to merge your body with unknown people as you take over karma or energies/ sanskars of the people you unite with sexually. Sex is an act of fulfillment of love and it should not be indulged in where you cannot commit to the act with responsibility. Often, depression or stress are a result of sex with people who are subconsciously negative, sad or deprived.
Being complete as a householder helps you be in the centre of the pocess of creation while learning to co-create as a soul which is a part of the Creator . You, a s a spirit, incarnate in the human body to learn the process of creation through adding plus to the energy of creation. You brighten the light of the Creator by your happiness and reduce it by your sadness. Staying with one lover.Where minds do not unite, evolution needs to be irrespective of love