Happiness something everyone hopes to achieve in his or her lifetime Such a simple concept yet many have trouble realizing how to obtain it Sometimes we unintentionally create our own obstacles that prevent us from achieving this goal It is ever so important to realize the ways we are limiting ourselves so we can fully reach happiness Actually happy people and unhappy people see the world through two completely opposing views Let s look at the ways happy people stay happy while the unhappy remain miserableThe only people who gossip are people whose personal lives are not fulfilling enough If you are happy and content with your life why do you even care what is going on in someone else s There is no reason to engage in this petty behavior all it does is make you look pathetic and jealousPeople who are unable to mind their own business are most likely internally miserable They seek to find faults within others just to make themselves feel better They tend to lead boring lives and have no excitement in their own so they act in this manner to create something out of nothing They seek to fill the gap in their lives by discussing the lives of others and judging them harshly so that they can feel better about their own miserable existencesThere are the miserable people who are always complaining about anything and everything while on the other side we have the optimistic people who always look at the glass as half full and are constantly looking for more out of life Thinking positively will directly affect your happiness since you are focusing on the good as opposed to the badThere is no reason for a happy person to act jealous towards others They recognize the good fortune they possess and relish in it They do not compare themselves to others since they are more than likely content with themselves Instead of acting jealous towards others they take pleasure in their success and celebrate their accomplishments with them Happy people do not look to others to confirm their selfworth They recognize their value on their own and don t live up to anyone s expectations They do things for themselves that they believe will advance them in life By not concerning themselves with the opinions of others they can focus on personal growth There is no reason to actively seek revenge against another person Leave that up to karma and just continue living your life accordingly Instead of focusing on revenge happy people try to make peace with the issue The only way to stop revenge is to give up and to accept it Replace the evil feelings with opposite thinking This is the only way rise above it and let it be By holding onto resentment all you are doing is continuing and intensifying your own sadness Learn to let things go especially those which are unchangeable and that are in the past This feeling will eat at you from the inside and cause stress There is a unique sense of freedom once you let your anger goIt d be easy to voice my thoughts rationally but quite as easy to do it condescendingly as well Many people will have a belief and will hold onto it even when contrary facts are presented to them If it is a topic that you know they won t listen to with open ears don t open your mouth just so you can appear wiser in the eyes of those around you You re only boosting your ego Do not force your opinions on others or think you know best as everyone is coming from somewhere State your point calmly and listen to others At the very least you can always agree to disagree One of the biggest challenges we face in life is learning to accept people for who they truly are Once you realize that your expectations cannot change people the better off you will be The problem will arise when the expectations do not materialize Unrealistic expectations will can and most often do lead to disappointment Do not expect things out of situations just go into them with an open mind This will allow you to fully immerse yourself without the pressure of living up to preconceived notions When a problem arises it is the unhappy people who tend to ignore it This is an awful way to handle situations as the longer you let a problem linger the greater it will become You need to tackle issues head on and as soon as possible in hopes of rectifying the circumstances The stress and anxiety of ignoring such things can and will make you miserable and consumed with worry Your happiness is contingent upon your outlook and not the actual situation You have the power to view things in certain ways so it is crucial to try and remain positive Look within yourself to create your own happiness Do not look at others to fulfill you you are more than capable on your own No relationship or material possession can bring you true happiness until you are happy on your own first and foremost This is a fatal error far too many people make in their lives Over thinking is what creates problems from nothing and is probably the leading cause for arguments between two people Many people falsely believe that by over thinking certain things they can garner a better result There are actually little to no benefits to overanalyzing any given situation All this will do is cause a person stress and anxiety The more time a person analyzes a decision the more time this person makes themselves susceptible to negative thinking Rational decisions can become clouded when a person lingers on them for too long The motivation and drive behind the initial idea can and will start to obscureThe past is the past for a reason it has already happened There is no reason to linger there since it cannot be changed Happy people tend to make peace with their past and focus on the future They actively seek out different opportunities in order to make the most out of their lives Confidence is a crucial aspect of any happy person just like this is a critical characteristic for a leader Happy people tend to be secure in their values and beliefs and as a result have a propensity to be leaders as opposed to followers When you hear a comment that you think is directed at you take a moment and think Do not over analyze the situation at hand just let the other person speak freely Listen completely to what this person is saying selective hearing is the cause of these misinterpretations People tend to get caught up in petty drama which typically occurs when one person takes something the wrong way When it comes down to it you re in control of how you interpret things Think of how much more you could achieve with a new perspective one seen only through your eyesHere are a dozen things that any of us at any age or stage of life can start doing today to feel the effects of more happiness in our livesWhen you appreciate what you have what you have appreciates in value Kinda cool right So basically being grateful for the goodness that is already evident in your life will bring you a deeper sense of happiness And thats without having to go out and buy anything It makes sense Were gonna have a hard time ever being happy if we arent thankful for what we already haveWinners have the ability to manufacture their own optimism No matter what the situation the successful diva is the chick who will always find a way to put an optimistic spin on it She knows failure only as an opportunity to grow and learn a new lesson from life People who think optimistically see the world as a place packed with endless opportunities especially in trying timesComparing yourself to someone else can be poisonous If were somehow better than the person that were comparing ourselves to it gives us an unhealthy sense of superiority If you feel called to compare yourself to something compare yourself to an earlier version of yourselfPerforming an act of kindness releases serotonin in your brain Serotonin is a substance that has tremendous health benefits including making us feel more blissful Selflessly helping someone is a super powerful way to feel good inside Whats even cooler about this kindness kick is that not only will you feel better but so will people watching the act of kindness How extraordinary is that The happiest people on the planet are the ones who have deep meaningful relationships Theres a warm fuzzy feeling that comes from having an active circle of good friends who you can share your experiences with We feel connected and a part of something more meaningful than our lonesome existenceHow you respond to the bad moments is what shapes your character It can be hard to come up with creative solutions in the moment but it helps to have healthy strategies for copingHarboring feelings of hatred is horrible for your wellbeing You see your mind doesnt know the difference between past and present emotion When you hate someone and youre continuously thinking about it those negative emotions are toxic for your wellbeingIts when youre so focused on what youre doing that you become one with the task Action and awareness are merged Youre not hungry sleepy or emotional Youre just completely engaged in the activity that youre doing Nothing is distracting you or competing for your focusDeep happiness cannot exist without slowing down to enjoy the joy Its easy in a world of wild stimuli and omnipresent movement to forget to embrace lifes enjoyable experiences When we neglect to appreciate we rob the moment of its magic Its the simple things in life that can be the most rewarding if we remember to fully experience themBeing wholeheartedly dedicated to doing something comes fullyequipped with an ineffable force Magical things start happening when we commit ourselves to doing whatever it takes to get somewhere When youre fully committed to doing something you have no choice but to do that thingWhen we practice spirituality or religion we recognize that life is bigger than us We surrender the silly idea that we are the mightiest thing ever It enables us to connect to the source of all creation and embrace a connectedness with everything that exists Some of the most accomplished people feel that theyre here doing work theyre called to do Taking care of your body is crucial to being the happiest person you can be If you dont have your physical energy in good shape then your mental energy your focus your emotional energy your feelings and your spiritual energy your purpose will all be negatively affected
Dreams are manifold in their nature Often people do not understand that dreams are a way of our own subconscious mind trying to contact us with some instructions or revelations If we are careful enough to understand them in the right way we can gain several insights for a purposeful life Why a dead relative or friend would appear in your dream is a question that needs to be answered both from psychological and spiritual standpointsduring afterlife the dead people possess subtle bodies It is easy for them to contact you during sleep than during waking state While you are awake all you five senses are engaged Therefore excepting for people of highest spiritual attainment it is difficult for others to get to know that the deceased soul is trying to contact them On the other hand during dreams mind is highly receptive to subtle messages and therefore dead people choose to contact you through dreamsYour own feelings of guilt or repentance that you have not done what you ought to have done to them while they were alive can get them in your dreams If you are highly anxious about their death you might see them in your dreams In such cases the dreams are the expressions of the feelings deep rooted in our subconscious mindThere are two main spiritual reasons why a dead relative or friend appears in your dream Sometimes the deceased soul might want some help with the afterlife through its descendant on the earth you Also it might want to take revenge of or get even with someone in the family or friends circle through your assistance The former is a very prominent reason and the latter is quite rarein the first place a dream can be said spiritual if it repeats itself at least three times If the dead soul is so confident of you that you shall do something for it it shall try to contact you and indicate you that it needs some help to move on peacefully or clear some obstacles found in its journey during afterlifeSuch people who die after prolonged illness or through natural ways have always anticipated their death and therefore find no difficult in moving on with their afterlife Often those who faced violent deaths during unexpected moments are not mentally prepared for their deaths and therefore find it very difficult to move further with their afterlife Therefore they might want your assistance in moving furtherIn the first place if you want to free yourself of their memories or would like them stop haunting you chant Shri Gurudev Datta continuously In case of departed family members appearing in frequent dreams you can do rituals like N r ya a N gbali or Tripindi shr ddha The mantras chanted by priests during such rituals are highly powerful in helping the deceased souls move on without any difficulty in their afterlife
Do you know that Amitabh Bachchan was rejected by numerous directors and producers because of his unconventional looks and height He also failed an All India Radio audition test Similarly the very famous JK Rowling was rejected by 12 publishers before Harry Potter and The Philosophers Stone was accepted by Bloomsbury Michael Jordan is another prime example of the power of rejection He was cut from the basketball team in his school He was told that he wasn t good enough they chose not to give up There are more names that we can add to the list of highly successful people who were painfully discarded by the world but like the phoenix bird they rose from the ashes to become a cult Bill Gates Oprah Winfrey Steve Jobs So is there something that these people have in common Yes their habits Successful people know that they are in charge of their own destiny You don t hear them whine about the things that stopped them from success You won t hear them make excuses Instead they push forward knowing that they are the only thing that will make or break their success Many times when you try something new strive for a better result something inside you your inner voice will attempt to stop you or to slow you down Don t do this you might get yourself into some unnecessary trouble This inner voice is meant to protect you from getting hurt However it is the same protective barrier which has prevented a lot of people from moving forward from making a difference in their life The number one thing persistently holding smart people back is their own reluctance to accept an opportunity simply because they don t think they re ready In other words they feel uncomfortable and believe they require additional knowledge skill experience etc before they can aptly partake in the opportunity Sadly this is the kind of thinking that stifles personal growth and success Successful people believe that learning never ends This doesn t mean they re going to school to get new degrees although they may Even without formal education they re constantly reading and learning from others around them A lot of people demands perfection before they try their best There are people who always complain that the time is not ready they have not acquired all the necessary skills and knowledge to do it etc On the other hand there are people who just give their best shot learn from their mistake make improvement and then proceed further The more action you take the more you learn from your mistake and the more perfect you are Successful people view every mistake as a learning experience to sharpen their skills Everyone inevitably experiences setbacks but how they take the falls are the defining moments that separate the winners from the losers in the long run When you know what you want it all of a sudden becomes a lot easier to set out about choosing everything from where to eat to where you want to work for All of this has to do about managing time health and all small aspects of life that help us slowly crawl towards the top Have you ever heard the phrase the early bird catches the worm Guess what its true Successful people wake up early and have accomplished more in am than most are able to do by noon Checking off your to dos early will motivate you to accomplish more as the day progresses If you really pay attention to the successful people around you you ll probably notice that not many of them are very negative people In fact they seem to exude positivity Do they have some magic positivity pill Luckily the answer is a lot simpler They re filled with gratitude about the things around them Working hard to achieve your goals only works when you are surrounded with people who make you feel good You need to be at your best to achieve the big dreams in your life Negative people just weigh you down While you can t avoid every negative interaction you certainly control the big influencers Make sure the people who are closest to you support you as a person and what you want to achieve Successful people don t have the word excuse in their vocabulary When you think about your dream it s easy to come up with an excuse not to do your best to make it come true Successful people don t do that They are proactive and do their best to overcome each obstacle that comes their way After all if you don t believe in your dream why would anyone else There s a popular saying which states that success happens outside your comfort zone It s true In order to become successful you have to push yourself and suppress your fear of failure Failure isn t the worst thing that can happen At least you can learn something when you make a mistake No trying is the worst Our egos paralyze us the moment we re about to ask a question That fear of judgment is crippling Rather than asking and gaining new knowledge we protect our image and remain mired in our lack of knowledge Successful people are ignorant of judgment and protecting their ego They prefer growth in asking questions The inability to ask inhibits our personal growth Throughout history intuition has been a proven asset for successful people For example Steve Jobs Oprah Winfrey Simon Cowell Conrad Hilton and Donald Trump have all publicly acknowledged how much they are guided by their intuition Steve Jobs reminded the employees at Apple to Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition everything else is secondary Successful people will sacrifice their social life for a few months to achieve a goal get up two hours earlier each morning to get to the gym or say No to cake when wanting to lose weight They make decisions about what behaviour best reflects their goals and values and many even have a mission statement Successful people think about what they want and formulate a plan to achieve it They dont sit around dwelling on what they dont have what theyve missed and how they have gotten screwed over
Doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere But if you listen to the sound of your own voice you can rise above doubt and judgment And you can see forever You and I we judge others And they judge us We all do it Sometimes we judge with positive or nonharming intentionsUnfortunately our judgment often comes from a negative place with darker intentIt is very easy to judge someone Many times youve been judged by the people who dont even know you The reason Because this world is filled with Judgmental people But after watching this 1minute video youll think at least twice before judging someone
One mystifying and baffling subject that people dread discussing is of a ghost There are so many terrifying stories associated with ghosts that we usually shun this kind of topic As per the conventional point of view ghosts are the spirits of the deceased people that for some reason are stuck between this plane of existence and the next But for what And how Here are certain explanations An earthbound spirit is a soul that does not pass to the other realm in peace after death They stay behind here on earth and hence are responsible for the various ghost sightings and haunted places The reasons for this are diverse Some are complex and exclusive to that spirit and others are easy to recognize Take a look Many people think that some spirits don t know that they are dead Renowned ghost hunter Hans Holzer writes A ghost is a human being who has passed out of the physical body usually in a traumatic state and is not aware usually of his true condition We are all spirits encased in a physical body At the time of passing our spirit body continues into the next dimension A ghost on the other hand due to trauma is stuck in our physical world and needs to be released to go on Some spirits linger at or near the site of their death particularly if it was abrupt and surprising They remain perplexed and dont know or believe that they have died These spirits stay in the area and try to establish contact with anyone that comes near to the things they are attached with Believe it or not there are spirits wandering out there who aren t clear on the fact that they ve died The mind is a very powerful tool If someone who is extremely committed to living dies all of a sudden it could take days or even weeks for them to get the clue They end up haunting their handout places trying to get the attention of the living and wondering why you can t hear them Sometime an unfulfilled wish does not allow the spirit to go to the next realm This desire is something that they wanted with all their heart It can be anything from finishing a book to wanting a grandchild They lack spiritual practice consisting of progressive level of surrender of mind body and intellect done with the intention of Godrealization Some spirits stay behind to take care of incomplete business It may be to make sure their finances and their loved ones are ok or to pass along one final message Often these earthbound spirits do not remain here for long once they can complete their goal they normally pass over Sometimes a spirit becomes conscious of the fact that he or she has died but is also aware that life continues beyond that They do not go to the light for reasons such as the fear that their existence will end fear of the unknown fear of being judged for past deeds etc These spirits are bound here because of their own fears Guilt can also be a reason for a spirit being jammed here They may feel like they have abandoned their family with no one to take care of them A lot of people believe that this is the main reason why suicide victims and other spirits whose death was caused by their actions alcoholics drug overdose etc remain behind The living can also hold a spirit here By not letting go of them they can be bound here by our love and unable or unwilling to go on until the living can come to terms with the loss This happens when people go beyond the normal grieving process and become obsessed with the deceased person If while dying a person is filled with angry emotions sour resentments or if he or she clings on to negative feelings or emotions against other people they may be trapped here anchored by their negative energies When a spirit gets stuck on this earth plane they are referred to as Earthbound However they are not really bound at all Each of them can choose to move on at any time Some of them choose not to Though exceptionally uncommon there are accounts of ghostly entities associating themselves not to things but to people and throwing in themselves into worldly relationships usually out of some injudicious idea of possessiveness or outright jealousy
Based on the ancient knowledge of palmistry we know how the palm lines and symbols are associated with our personalities and future prospects in terms of career life marriage money and healthThis popular ancient practice of foretelling the future through the study of the palm has its roots traced back to Indian HinduVedic astrology Based on several scriptures around the world its been deduced that several thousand years ago Hindu sage Valmiki authored a book containing 567 versesIt is believed that from India the knowledge and practice of palmistry sprawled across the world through China Tibet Egypt Persia and to several other countries in EuropeIt is also said that it was Greece scholar Anaxagoras who during his time around the Indian subcontinent learned about Palmistry and later shared the knowledge with HermesAristotle found the treatise regarding the matter of palmistry at one of Hermes altars which he then displayed to Alexander the Great The latter took great interest and began inspecting the character of his officers by evaluating the lines on their palmsThough there is no affirming evidence of the same but some say that Alexander deeply studied his own palms and strategized his life accordingly and no one had the markings lines and symbols like his palmsEgyptian scholars suggest that Alexander The Great had this unique marking on his palm which was rarely found in anyone else in the world Of late only 3 of the entire population claimed to have the exact same marking Letter XIn order to determine the credibility of this claim the STI University from Moscow recently conducted a research and revealed a paper on the subject of the letter X on the palms and its potential connection to the destiny of the people who have itThe University took collected and analysed the data of over 2 million people both living and dead and concluded that people who had letter X on both palms were either leaders or highly popular individuals in the society remembered for great thingsOf the rare individuals who had this marking were great Greek Emperor Alexander The Great President Abraham Lincoln And one of these people is still alive and is hard to ignore Russian president Vladimir PutinThose who have Letter X in both their palms go on to be remembered for ages even after their death And the ones who have it only in one of their palm go on to be extremely successful and famous individualsThese people have great sixth sense or intuition The can sense danger infidelity and disloyalty from a hands distance Over the time they form a special energy cycle around them which people around them simply cannot intrudeTrying lying to them and they ll unleash the worst ever side of themselves They might forgive but theyll never forget Nothing or no one can bring them any harm such is the power of their luckThese people are sharp intuitive have great knowledge and memory of an elephant They are easy to adapt and make no fuss about arrangements around them
They have a firm and steadfast selfconfidence and are able to remain unaltered or unaffected during the vagaries of this world and the problems that the life poses before themLive in the present momentSpend time with people who make you feel greatEmbrace the unknownGet good at somethingAddress the flaws you can addressBe thankful for what you haveAvoid perfectionismPut care into your appearanceMake eye contactGet rid of as many sources of negativity as you canStick to your principlesHelp othersLook in the mirror and smileAccept compliments gracefullyStop comparing yourself to othersAdopt a more positive mindsetBounce back from your mistakesTalk about it with friends and loved onesRecognize your insecuritiesTake pride in your good qualitiesIdentify your talents
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people are so sensitive and mysterious we cant predict who will do what we must take care about many things like talking with each otherwe have to think about why people suffer or why do bad things happenduniya badi ajib hai isse samajana mere liye muskil hai
People are often unreasonable illogical and selfcentered Forgive them anyway If you are kind people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives be kind anyway If you are successful you will win some false friends and some true enemies succeed anyway If you are honest and frank people maycheat on you Be honest and frank anyway What you spend years building someone could destroy overnight build anyway If you find serenity and happiness they may be jealous be happyanyway The good you do today people will often forget tomorrow do good anyway Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough give the world the best youve got anyway You see in the final analysis it is between you and God it was never between you and them anyway Mother Teresa