Doing these things will make people remember you even after your death!

Jun 09, 2017, 15:42 IST 13K
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Make people love you -- here's how
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Make people love you -- here's how

We all know that death is not the end of the world --- all of us want to leave behind a legacy --- we want to be known for being happy, honest and lovable. However, no matter how much we try, yet there will be people who do not like us --- so, what can we do so that people remember us, even after death? Read on to know more...

Be blunt
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Be blunt

You can't always play safe in life --- no matter what people say, everyone appreciates an honest man --- no matter what you do, do it with a good heart --- life does not always have to be in black and white, sometimes you have to do some things using the colour grey as well.

Talk
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Talk

No, you don't have to be a blabber mouth, yet people appreciate those who have an opinion --- talk, share interests, narrate stories and voice your opinion. Have a stand --- you might not be always be right, but you will never be wrong either.

Be different
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Be different

No, you don't have to do something that your conscience does not allow to in order to be different -- all you need to do is to let go off the boring things in your life --- you have to take the path less trodden to see where it leads you in life.

Trigger emotions
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Trigger emotions

People might forget what you did to them, but they will never forget how you made them feel --- create memories and experiences with people --- go on a holiday, share a meal or laugh out loudly with someone -- you will leave behind a legacy that will be unmatched.

Be clear
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Be clear

Always be clear of what your individual personality is in life --- make sure that people know you less by your name and more by the kind of persona that you exude. Create your own special aura around you.

Be there
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Be there

Live in the moment --- do not try to do too many things simultaneously, else you might neither be here nor there. When in a particular moment, try to soak it up fully instead of letting your mind wander away.

Ask questions
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Ask questions

No matter if they make no sense, ask questions to each and everyone -- you might not agree with their answers, but you will at least have a voice. Getting your questions answered is also your single most important way to keep learning in life.

Reinforce your thoughts
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Reinforce your thoughts

If you truly believe in something, go out of the way to prove it right. Remember, when you are gone , people are more likely to remember your arguments rather than your silence.

Be a part of the whole
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Be a part of the whole

As important it is to make your voice heard, it is equally important to listen to other's voices as well. When in a group, try not to hog the limelight -- be a good player and go with the flow --- convince others, but take their thoughts into play as well.

Don't just watch
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Don't just watch

If something irks you to no end, do something to change it -- don't just sit there watching it. People tend to remember people who have actually done something good for the society rather than remembering those who were always cribbing.

Do something unusual
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Do something unusual

No one likes mediocrity --- in life, do that one thing you might be extremely proud of. It might be something as small as doing bungee jumping or something as big as running for the President -- do something that pleases you first, only then think about others.

Take it easy
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Take it easy

Don't try to always please others -- similarly, don't even try to please yourself! All you need to do is to let go sometimes. Let people something like , Öh, he was so successful, but he liked to have fun too"! Learn to unwind.

Take up a cause
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Take up a cause

It could be something that you are truly passionate about --- no, you don't have to change the world, but do something that you truly care about. Not only will that give you happiness, it will make others respect you as well!

Let your work do the talking
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Let your work do the talking

Don't brag or blow your own trumpet --- make sure that others spread the good word around you. A good thing done is of no use if you have to convince others that you have done it. Let people decide for themselves.

Get over yourself
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Get over yourself

Finally, do not pay too much attention to yourself --- love yourself the way you are, but don't be pompous and vain. Take out time to talk to others and listen to their problems rather that bragging about your own self.

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