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Coming to terms
How many times have we got angry with others for backbiting,bragging,lying,beli- ttling,Judging others harshly,etc..etc...Little do we realise that we are also guilty of the same crime toa lesser or greater degree.
Conflict arises when we realise that We are as bad as the rest of them more specifically when we realise that Others are capable of doing & thinking the same things & thots as us !
Something like C.H.Cooley's Looking glass self.
For example one might complain / find a million faults about the way their parents brought them up.When that same person becomes a parent him/herself WHAM ! hit by a ton of bricks.He is doing pretty much the same things that he/she used to criticise about & that is a rough calling !
So what does one do in such a situation ?? Tries Really HARD to do things different or opposite .Its very Hard work & Constant Effort. Very Tiring.
It becomes a lot easier when we learn to hold our tongues & resist the urge to Talk aimlessly, to be LESS JUDGEMENTAL & gather a lot of Patience.
Even then its a herculean task but atleast its a start !
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